FAQs

It begins with intention. You submit a complete booking request, and from there I take care of the rest, guiding you through the process. If my words and images resonate with you, there’s usually a natural continuity when we meet in person.

Meeting someone new can feel like a step into the unknown. That’s part of its appeal. I’m often told that any initial tension fades quickly, replaced by a sense of comfort and quiet familiarity.

Choosing to connect is, in itself, an act of presence. A life lived without curiosity tends to feel smaller.

Of course. A lot of people are new to this. There’s no expectation for you to “know how it works.” I’ll guide things naturally. I understand you might feel anxious. My ultimate goal is to make you feel comfortable and confident.

The first moments usually carry a sense of excitement, and any initial awkwardness tends to fade on its own, often the moment you see my smile.

We will greet each other properly, and I will excuse myself briefly to freshen up and make sure everything feels as it should.

If we meet in public, please pass my consideration discreetly, whether in an envelope, a small bag, or something a little more imaginative. A book cover or a jewellery case are among my favourites.

If we are meeting privately, leaving it visible by the bathroom sink is perfect.

After that, we settle in and enjoy the time together.

Not really. I care about respect, kindness, and how you communicate. Everything else is background noise.

I do expect you to be clean & well-groomed, as I am.

Gifts are never expected, but they are always noticed and genuinely appreciated. Giving and receiving, in all its forms, happens to be one of my favourite love languages.

If you’re unsure what to choose, I recommend following my lead. I have rather specific tastes. And who said gifts have to be limited to the moment we meet? Thoughtful gestures before or after our date tend to leave a lasting impression too.

If you’re curious, you’ll find a wishlist to guide you. In any case, attentiveness rarely goes unnoticed.

I do, though I prefer to think of it as shared presence rather than a role. Warmth, attention, and a natural intimacy that isn’t rushed or rehearsed.

I’m at my best when time is allowed to stretch. Long meals, wandering conversations, travel, quiet moments that feel almost domestic, even a public kiss when the mood invites it. I value restraint and sensitivity, an unspoken understanding of timing and nuance.

When there’s space, connection takes shape on its own.

I am. As a kinky companion, I identify as a switch. I’m equally comfortable leading or surrendering, always with intention and mutual awareness.

Everything starts with communication. Clear boundaries, shared trust, and an honest exchange of curiosities. I appreciate when someone comes with thoughts they’ve been holding onto, waiting for the right setting.

If you have specific toys or accessories in mind, you’re welcome to bring them, gift them in advance, or simply ask if I already have something similar. Discussing preferences early allows us to shape something more considered and personal.

Kink, for me, is not about repetition. It’s about creating something that exists only once.

Very carefully. Everything you share through my booking form is treated with strict confidentiality and handled in full compliance with GDPR.

If we meet, your details are deleted shortly after. If we don’t, they’re removed just as promptly. I use secure, encrypted communication and take extra precautions when handling messages.

Discretion is not an extra for me, it’s simply part of the work.

I move through the world in a way that rarely invites assumptions. Most would never guess what I do for a living, which allows us to remain unnoticed, even in plain sight.

I work independently, where pleasure and privacy naturally go hand in hand.

Yes. I regularly work with clients who place a high value on privacy, including public figures and high-net-worth individuals. When needed, an in-person meeting with a trusted representative can be arranged to minimise digital records.

I’m accustomed to working in environments where discretion is essential and have signed non-disclosure agreements (NDAs) on multiple occasions. Clear boundaries and quiet handling of sensitive information are standard practice for me.

If this applies to you, feel free to reach out and we can discuss the most discreet way forward.

No. Recording or photographing our time together without my explicit consent is not acceptable and may have legal consequences.

On rare occasions, and only with people I know and trust well, I may agree to a few non-sexual photos. This is something that develops over time and is very much reserved for a small inner circle.

Yes, when they evolve naturally. Some of the most fulfilling connections I have are long-term ones. The kind where someone reaches out ahead of a work trip and asks me to join them, accompanying their schedule across cities and commitments, rather than fitting everything into a single moment.

I travel often and am very comfortable moving alongside demanding agendas. Being flown in to share time between meetings, dinners, and quieter hours is a rhythm I know well.

Semi-exclusive dynamics appeal to me when they arise organically, shaped by trust, consistency, and a shared sense of discretion. These aren’t arrangements you rush into. They take shape over time.

I’m equally comfortable in a dive bar or at a Michelin-starred table, at a gallery opening, a museum found by accident, or simply walking through a city together. I enjoy all kinds of dates, but I tend to prioritise those that involve an activity we can share.

Beyond dinners, favourites include skiing together, a hike, a boat ride, time spent unwinding at a spa, exhibition openings, or accompanying you to public events and afterparties. I’ve done all of the above, including more formal settings, and I know how to move comfortably in those spaces.

I’m happy to suggest restaurants, hotels, or ideas nearby, or to explore something new together. If you come with a plan, I’ll gladly join. If you prefer to leave the details to me, that works just as well.