The Gift Index

A shortcut to my tastes.
Use wisely — or extravagantly.

A woman with short dark hair, glasses, and a beret, wearing lingerie and long gloves, posing in front of a wooden wall and green curtains.

This list isn’t just about gifts — it’s a short-cut to understand my tastes, my quirks, and maybe figure out if we share a few passions.
If something here makes you think “oh, I love that too”, we might already be off to a good start.

Whether you’re prepping for our first date, saying thanks after a magical time, or just trying to catch my attention from afar because life’s unfair and you can’t see me in person. Here’s how to impress me from any distance.

A thoughtful gift isn’t about the object itself — it’s a signal.
It shows attention, taste, intention. It says “I see you.”
That’s the kind of gesture that makes a companion feel at ease, desired, excited — it creates trust, warmth, and chemistry long before we even touch.

Desire starts long before skin touches skin.
It starts here.

And if you simply feel like showing a little appreciation, a tip, whether physical or virtual, is always a lovely gesture.

A Note for December

December shows up with… opinions.
Colder days, festive lights, and my birthday landing right on the 13th.

Which apparently convinces people that “one gift for both” is acceptable.
(It isn’t. It has never been. It never will be.)

So consider this a friendly seasonal reminder:
generosity is deeply appreciated, and very much in style this month.

Yes, some items on this list look bizarre.
That’s conceptual art babe, everything is strange until it ends up in a museum.

Just know this: if you pick something from here, one day you might say,
“I contributed to that artwork.”
Iconic, honestly.

Art Materials

Prada

I’m not interested in logos, I collect runway pieces. They’re my weakness.
If you take me shopping there in person… let’s just say you won’t forget the way I say thank you.

Gift cards: Mytheresa, Illum, Luisaviaroma, Voo Store

Clothing

I have very selective tastes — here are a few examples of what I’d love.If you’re looking to surprise me, know that my ideal selection is rare, luxurious, and full of character.

Lingerie

Jewelry

Some models that I like (if you know, you know)

Piaget Montre Bracelet
Gübelin Secret Watch
Piaget Polo
Omega “Teak” by Andrew Grima
Piaget Yellow Gold Bamboo Jade
Jaeger-LeCoultre Étrier

& everything sculptural 70s designs

Vintage Watches

Books

the cliché about glasses might actually be true

Black and white photograph of six people around a woman’s legs and feet, with two men kneeling and tying her shoes, while others observe. The woman is holding a paper and looking serious. The setting appears professional, possibly backstage or in a studio.
Book cover featuring a woman in lingerie and a black blazer, holding a cigarette, with the title 'Tokyo Sex Underground' by Romain Slocombe.
Book cover featuring a woman with blue eyes holding her face with both hands, looking directly ahead, with text 'RICHARD KERN XXMODELS' at the top.
Close-up of a person's buttocks with a small pig emoji in the center, with bold red text 'YAA-HOO' at the top and blue text 'Paul McCarthy' at the bottom.
A woman with blonde hair poses topless on the floor next to a fireplace with a fire burning. A man is lying on the floor in front of her. The setting appears to be a dimly lit room with a dark, intimate atmosphere. White text overlays the image, stating "Mike Kelley and Paul McCarthy Collaborative Works."
Book cover titled 'Why I Got Into Art' by Anonymous, with black background and beige text.
Book cover titled "Ask Dr. Mueller: The Writings of Cookie Mueller" with a photograph of a woman laughing and wearing a black dress, accessorized with bracelets and earrings, and the text indicates an introduction by John Waters.
Book cover titled 'Hardcore Crafts,' edited by Nancy Bruning Levine, featuring a surreal illustration of a woman's torso with a pink rose in place of her navel, against a dark background.
A black and white photo of a person dressed in a clown costume with a wig and beard, framed by pink and green borders with the text 'Seduction Jean Baudrillard' at the bottom.
Black and white photo of a person with shoulder-length hair standing in front of a menu board in a fast food restaurant. The person is facing away from the camera. Pink text at the bottom reads "Daido Moriyama Shinjuku."
Close-up of the cover of a book featuring a woman with blonde hair, wearing a headband, and her mouth open.

Gifted

Cover of The X Directory with a yellow background, black text, and a small image of a woman at the bottom.
A woman with curly black hair, red lipstick, wearing black lingerie with stars on the panties, and lace details. The cover features the title "LUST CIRCUS" in blue text and the author's name "Dave Naz" at the top left. The word "GOLIATH" is at the bottom.
A high heel shoe with a shiny black finish worn on a person's foot against a pink background, part of a promotional postcard for adult content.
Book cover titled 'I am my Lover' by Joani Blank and Honey Lee Cottrell. The cover features a black and white photograph of a woman's body, focusing on her torso and hand.
Blurred image of a book cover with floral patterns and the text 'The Hotel' at the bottom.

Gifted

A yellow book cover with the title 'PUSSIRAD' written vertically in red, with horizontal lines crossing the letters, creating a cross-like design.
A black-and-white photograph of a person in a dress, hung on a pink wall.
Black and white photo of a woman lying on a bed, holding a doll, with text above and below reading 'Kowasareta Ningo' and 'Broken Dolls'.

Gifted

A blurred magazine cover with pink, gray, blue, black, and yellow colors, featuring the words 'The Daily' prominently on the front.

Gifted

Close-up of a person's face with a red and black patterned wig, partially visible, against a dark background.
Book cover titled "New Erotic Photography" showing a woman with short dark hair and red lipstick sitting topless on a wooden chair, partially covered by a beige sheet, in front of yellow curtains, with a lamp and glasses on a table beside her.

Gift cards options:

Climax books — My fav book store, check the selection, it’s amazing!

Saint-Martin Bookshop — Another gem located in Brussels.

A beautifully decorated cake on a floral tray, garnished with pink rose petals, surrounded by rose petal decorations, with hands holding the tray on either side.

Food

a glimpse into my palate

A box of chocolate bonbons — someone once said they’re a decent metaphor for life. I agree, but I eat them faster. (I really like Friis Holm, Standout, Dandelion, Melissa Copper, Kreuther, Bonnat, Benoit Nihant, Frederic Blondeel, Pierre Marcolini)

Natural wines — I love champagne but I’m definitely more of a natural wine girl. Pet-nat, orange, cloudy whites… anything alive, mineral, a little wild.

This wine changed my life. It might do the same for you.

Green, White, Sencha, Matcha Tea — I like my caffeine gentle and sophisticated, coffee is for amateurs.

Old balsamic vinegar (50+ years old) — Gift it, then ask me why I’m obsessed. You’ll either laugh or be very confused. (my suggestion)

Koshihikari — The Rolls-Royce of rice

Katsuobushi, Caviar and Bottarga